State of Indiana.
My SIL just acquired physical evidence of his affair. IN is a no-fault state, to my knowledge. However, they moved and purchased a home, a new vehicle, and more recently furniture (on store credit) that my SIL has absolutely no way of paying for solely on her income although all are in her name (his credit was not good enough to even co-sign).
My brother allegedly got papers to file for divorce yesterday, but to my knowledge has not filed yet.
He is the one that filed their taxes (married, joint) and has all of that information on his laptop which he took with him and while the majority of their refund was held for his child support arrearages, he will get most of it back in the fall. It’s my, and my SIL’s, belief that he has no intention whatsoever of giving my SIL her share and will keep the full refund amount for himself. The mortgage (and as far as I know, the deed) are in her name alone, as are the new vehicle (which he talked her into getting to have a ‘safe family car’ ), as well as the new furniture.
My SIL had to put her whole paycheck towards their mortgage and vehicle payment, and found that my brother was a month+ late on the utility payments. She, and her young daughter, are about to be without power and she had to get money from a friend to feed her daughter.
My questions are will the IN courts force him to pay my SIL his share of the debts accrued during their marriage? If there are shared debts from the relationship, but prior to their actual marriage, would those be included? And if so, how long might it take for her to see that money? She cannot afford to get an attorney just to be told she’s shit out of luck and on her own to drown in debt while my brother lives fat and happy playing step-daddy to his mistresses kids.
ETA:
Additionally, he appears to be sneaking off to his mistresses home for visits and potentially staying overnight. I don’t believe he has any plans to get a place of his own, but rather wait until his divorce has been finalized and then move in with this woman and her children. He has a child from a previous relationship. The Indiana Parenting Guidelines state that a relocation MUST be filed both with the court as well as given to the other parent no less than 90 days prior to the move. Just for clarification, he does not share a child with my SIL, both of their children are from their previous relationships.
He is the non-custodial parent. As such, what rights does he stand to lose if, or ultimately when, he does not file the 90 days prior and the custodial parent decides to take him back to court?
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