Location: Virginia
My husband and his ex-wife share custody of their 2 children, age 9 and 11. They have a clearly written legal agreement, and in regards to vacation, it states that if either parent wishes to take the children over 250 miles, then the other parent must consent.
She sends a text yesterday saying “just an FYI, we’re in FL for the weekend and I didn’t tell you sooner because I wanted to surprise the kids. Just wanted you to know”.
He responded “I’m not the kids and I wouldn’t have told them. You can’t take the kids 4 states away and let me know when you get there”. She hasn’t responded and he called and she won’t answer.
Unfortunately this behavior isn’t surprising. She’s extremely selfish and entitled. Last year we took the kids on a vacation out west and discussed it with her months in advance, and she wasn’t going to let us go. Everything on our end is a battle and the rules don’t apply to her.
How do we move forward?
EDIT: just a little background info. She had an affair for 2 years and they divorced over 5 years ago. She’s now married to this guy and he also has 3 kids
Written By: Chkouttheview
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