I’m going to copy and paste my post from r/advice but i live in ohio and am 22 if that helps at all with you guys but i would greatly appreciate any help i could get.
“so i’m extremely fucked up right now in an emotional sense i’ll try to be coherent it’s 4am and i’m a mess. my girlfriend of 4 years and i were going through what i thought was a civilized split up. today i get a crazy phone call of her screaming and saying she’s gone now. i check my bank account which we shared and she maxed out the withdrawal and transfer limit leaving me with maybe 40% of what was there ($700). she also sacked my apartment taking all the big tvs we had and all of her clothes and random shit she could take i would assume. i don’t need a lecture but advice on how to proceed or recoup anything if possible. she and i have our names on the bank account but she already made off with it all. can i call the bank and report this as theft if she’s on the account? will they understand if i talk to them about it? is it theft if she is on our lease and took all of our expensive shit? what can i do with the remaining items in the house can i sell them? her mom bought us a $800 couch if i sold that tomorrow would i face any legal back fire?
she destroyed the apartment while moving out. i even went to go to sleep after cleaning and there was a whole bottle of lotion emptied into my comforter so i could sleep in the bed. what can i do to get this bitch back or at least save myself some headache. also utility bills are due in 2 days and she ran off with the money for the bills her and i shared together.
sorry for formatting and and grammar i’m on mobile at 4am after being devastated. i’m still in shock id say idk what to honestly any guidance is appreciated.”
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