First and foremost sorry if the format is messed up I’m on mobile. I’m posting this on a throwaway for obvious reasons, but I need help. I don’t know if I even have any grounds for a lawsuit, or if any criminal action can be taken against this person and I’m too embarrassed to call the local PD if nothing can be done so I would really appreciate some advice here.
I’m currently 26 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend and I aren’t living together at the moment. Lately things have been a bit strained between us and communication hadn’t been very strong. Apparently a few days ago his phone was glitching out so he contacted someone he knew through a friend who fixed electronics for a fair price and brought him the phone to repair. I did not know this because he hadn’t called me yet to tell me, as I said things have been rocky and we haven’t been communicating well.
Anyways, last night I texted him to say happy easter a little while later he replied very kindly and started a conversation. I was really just happy to be talking to him and having a good conversation since we hadn’t in awhile. When I asked why he hadn’t talked to me in a couple days and why things had been different lately he apologized and told me he’d been feeling down, and was really sorry but that he missed me and apologized for how things had been going lately. He was typing different, and it didn’t really seem like the way he usually texted. There was slight spelling errors and abbreviations/slang he didn’t usually use. I brought this up and he said he wasn’t sure what I was talking about and laughed it off, I asked if he could send me a picture and he did so I let it go and figured I was being crazy, he must’ve taken one of the selfies off my boyfriends phone to send. The conversation went on and was really good and eventually he asked for a naked picture. Being pregnant I’ve been self conscious lately and my boyfriend knows that, so when I replied “I feel pregnant and huge i don’t feel sexy” he responded with tons of flattery telling me how me being pregnant was the most beautiful thing to him and made him feel close to me and the baby. Totally manipulating me. I sent the picture.
This morning my boyfriend called me to let me know his phone was being repaired, and that it had been with this guy for a couple days now. I felt sick. I told my boyfriend what happened and he called this guy and demanded his phone back, the basically laughed and told him he’d already sent the pictures to himself and had copies anyways. He then hung up and now the phone is off and we can’t get ahold of him. I’m completely distraught. I feel violated and disgusting and I just don’t know what to do. I’m sorry this post got so long but ultimately is there anything I can do legally to get him to delete the pictures? Can he be charged with anything if I file a police report, since I did send them on my own even though he was impersonating my boyfriend?
Edit: forgot to add that I’m in California.
Edit 2: sorry for the title gore. I made it when I was really emotional and didn’t double check.
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